Thursday, January 7, 2010

TRUST IN FRIENDSHIP


"To be trusted is something greater than to be loved" is a beautiful saying about TRUST-a feeling greater than anything else. Trust and belief seem to be little similar but in in its inner most meaning it completely differs. You can believe any one.But you can never trust a person so easily.In its roots if a person says that he trusts you then he really means it from the heart.Trust builds in your heart only after u know the person by heart.

Well,then how does trust establish itself?there are plenty of ways and the most striking way is through "FRIENDSHIP".I strongly believe that many people don't trust their parents as they trust their friends.we often say so many things to our best buddies trusting them.This trust really helps our people to guard us in many difficult situations.Because they know how we react in certain situations.To say it from a different angle,trusting means enabling others to take advantage of your vulnerabilities but still believing that they wont do this :).Friends are those people who know everything about us.. Positives and negatives,Good and bad,etc etc... I remember some quote about friendship which says "I know everything about u still i love u for the way u are".Most cases we are privileged enough to have somebody to trust and to be trusted....

Trust never comes in one day.. It takes time to spread out its roots into the hearts.. But for friendship trust builds quickly than the rest of the relationship(parents are exception)... There is a beautiful thought about friendship and trust.. The outline goes like this... There were two friends.. One person asks the other "What if i broke ur trust someday?The other one answered, trusting u was my decision and proving me right is ur choice... :)"

As said earlier trusting is greater than loving.But when that trust turns into a betrayal,then there is nothing worst than that.Honesty and trust are intertwined with each other.. When u trust someone u honestly confess something to them believing that they will understand you..Honesty should not be used against that person.. Trust is a beautiful piece glass of glass that has to be handled delicately..But when u break it, u stab that person to death.. U kill his soul..
So be happy to have trusted friends around you and be proud to be trusted!!! And never ever betray ur friendship and somebody's trust!!! As of now me signing off :)

Friday, July 31, 2009

ARE YOU LAVISH? THINK TWICE

Every time when I leave some food in my plate I am reminded of what my parents said. It made me realise a truth.One night after our dinner the topic "Inflation" was the subject of discussion. My father said that the prices of all the essential pulses are soaring high day by day in spite of government proclaiming that inflation in still remains negative. But today the price of one kg of pulses is almost 100 rupees. And the price of rice is rocketing!!. 260 millions of Indians are still below poverty line.Even Middle class people are people are struggling to run a family. If that is the case then what about the daily wagers?. They do have many dreams about their living.But not even their basic need of food satisfied. If this keeps going then poorer people go poorer and poorer.If the basic requirement is not sufficient,to think of other essentialities is of utter waste.Its high time that government realises this as a serious issue.So what is that which we can do? Very simple!!.The next time when you leave something in your plate, think about the innocent faces,those small children who are not even able to get one meal per day.From our side we can do things in such a way that might people who are in need. That could be of greater help to this society.