
"To be trusted is something greater than to be loved" is a beautiful saying about TRUST-a feeling greater than anything else. Trust and belief seem to be little similar but in in its inner most meaning it completely differs. You can believe any one.But you can never trust a person so easily.In its roots if a person says that he trusts you then he really means it from the heart.Trust builds in your heart only after u know the person by heart.
Well,then how does trust establish itself?there are plenty of ways and the most striking way is through "FRIENDSHIP".I strongly believe that many people don't trust their parents as they trust their friends.we often say so many things to our best buddies trusting them.This trust really helps our people to guard us in many difficult situations.Because they know how we react in certain situations.To say it from a different angle,trusting means enabling others to take advantage of your vulnerabilities but still believing that they wont do this :).Friends are those people who know everything about us.. Positives and negatives,Good and bad,etc etc... I remember some quote about friendship which says "I know everything about u still i love u for the way u are".Most cases we are privileged enough to have somebody to trust and to be trusted....
Trust never comes in one day.. It takes time to spread out its roots into the hearts.. But for friendship trust builds quickly than the rest of the relationship(parents are exception)... There is a beautiful thought about friendship and trust.. The outline goes like this... There were two friends.. One person asks the other "What if i broke ur trust someday?The other one answered, trusting u was my decision and proving me right is ur choice... :)"
As said earlier trusting is greater than loving.But when that trust turns into a betrayal,then there is nothing worst than that.Honesty and trust are intertwined with each other.. When u trust someone u honestly confess something to them believing that they will understand you..Honesty should not be used against that person.. Trust is a beautiful piece glass of glass that has to be handled delicately..But when u break it, u stab that person to death.. U kill his soul..
So be happy to have trusted friends around you and be proud to be trusted!!! And never ever betray ur friendship and somebody's trust!!! As of now me signing off :)
very true.. would just like to add that one should be exceedingly careful while trusting someone as it has great value.. and true friendshp always yields precious trust..
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